TO BE THE OWNER OF OUR STRENGTH ONCE AGAIN 

The responsibility of the free will is both destructive and constructive.

This is the power of selection.
The selections we hold now are mainly determining our future.
We can not always control our conditions, but we can choose our reactions.
When we become the owner of selection power, we find the courage to live fully.
 

Selection rule works not with our words, but with our behaviours. The selection of all creatures in the world is limited. Each being lives in direction of their own instincts and their own nature. There is free will in your own nature,too:Selections Rule . Your life is a theatre of these choices. Your destiny is being determined with your choices that you make for the time being. Either you behave according to the rules expressed with your deep feelings or you can lead the show being a slave to your fears, habits, desires.  If you choose immediate satisfaction in spite of the wise voice inside, the result of your choices will lead you to be rhythmic with "Cosmic Rules" sooner or later. Whatever way you choose; some will be lighty, some way will make you strong with difficulties and barriers but all of them will serve you with their own methods.

From time to time, you may think yourself as bending to the destiny,not as a person drawing his own way. Believe that it is not so. Many of our decisions are led by the wisdom of the subconscious. "Wise person inside"has more than a conscious mind. Sometimes, without knowing why, you attract consciously the events and the people that you do not want. But they serve you to learn and your utmost goodness.

THE QUESTION, "WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT POOR, SUFFERING, ABUSED, HUNGRY PEOPLE?" ARE YOU SAYING THAT THEY CHOOSE SUFFERING? IS SPINNING IN YOUR MIND, ISN’IT?

There are many faces of pain; the most richest person also suffers. The only thing that everyone can do is to choose the best in their own conditions.The choices directed to life, love, service...

But whatever life offers you, it is your choice how you react these: you may get angry, you may curse your fate or you may face with your case, you may make different choices and live the moment.  

AND WHAT IF THE ONES WHO CHOOSE THE DIFFICULTY AND THE TROUBLE BECAUSE THEY LOVE SOMEONE ELSE?

If you put your desires aside on behalf of your children, beloveds or ones, this is a behaviour of sacrificing yourself spiritually. But if you see yourself as "savior", you should revise your intention.

"Taking too much responsibility on behalf of the others cuts off the lessons of their choices they made."

If giving support and understanding for the people suffering is turning into assuming their boredom, we become to steal the power and self-respect that your beloveds’ need. 

IF YOU WANT, LET’S REVISE OUR CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONS AND WORKS 

You feel like being caught in a trap, don’t you? You may say you do not. You may count many reasons that it is not so to make me believe. But in fact, you are afraid; you are afraid of loosing, finishing, ending. The fact is that, when you gain the power to end your relationship, you may continue your relation. Only then, you can choose "to stay together"instead of "being obliged to" continue your relation with many reasons.

Can you understand?

I do not only mean your relations with your partner. These are related with your work, friends, where you live and your whole life.  

Some of the many people who has forgot the power of selection feel themselves that they have fallen in a trap in their relations, some feel that in conditions. These people need to suffer too much

to make new choices for the necessary will, courage and self- respect. When you do not reach the power of saying no, you can not really say yes either in your relations, in your life, in your work, or in another place. You do not have to wait to make positive,powerful changes. You do not have to go to school. You do not have to go to war. You do not have to go to work. You do not have to be married. You do not have to give birth. You do not have to behave according to the expectations and wishes of the others.

You do not have to do anything. Just, be ready for the results of all the things you do or you don’t. Accepting these results gives you the selection of who you are, where you are, what you do, your power and your freedom.

Here, at that time life turns into mass of facilities from mass of duties. At that time, there becomes miracles.  

To be aware of the power of choice and change your way at any time whatever the external forces or ideals are is like taking breath by going up from depths of the sea. Alternative choices that you can see compared with your position at the moment may make you drunk. Changing the relations that are hard, that you feel desperate, your career or anything else can sometimes look as an easy way. Some of the new choices can be right, even delayed but selection brings the responsibility together with. When you assume an effective and conscious  responsibility in expressing yourself, your choice becomes a more satisfying and real choice than now is; not an escape ! When you obey the selection rule, you have more clear decisions to create your life.

Then, you do not fall in doubt saying whether am I doing right?: Am I with right person? Do I work at the right work? You live your each day by choosing good with the utmost productivity.    

"To make a choice is to give up something you want for the thing you want to do more.

This is your life. Whenever you want; you may go."